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When dealing with problem, its a good thing to be in positive state. When you are in positive state, you will think clearly and able to find solution for your problem. One of my favorite tool to keep myself always in positive state is by using reframing. Reframing helps you to change from undesired states or behavior for positive intention.  Did you still remember that whatever we perceive in our minds based on how the internal and external representation in our brain.  The reframing technique is so special and powerful although you only use it in verbal communication. I use reframing a lots during my daily conversation and when talking to myself. Its will instantly change on how we deal with the situation and how we react towards its. Its not only useful in solving problems and change undesired behavior, but also important to selling while dealing with customer objection.

There are 3 types of reframing, six steps reframing, context and value reframing. But today I want to share with you the context reframing.

“A context reframe leaves the meaning of a behaviour the same and shows how it could be a useful response in a different context”

The example :“Its so difficult to manage my financial budget when the economy goes down.”

So when people asking or making statements about the negative impact from economy going down, you should think what is the benefit of that situation. The process of think for the positive results from the undesired situation will force your mind to find solution to your problem. Any average people will only think what is the bad impact of economic recession to them. Remember that in NLP, you have to be in cause side, not the effect from the bad situation. Therefore, you might give the people who give the negative statements from the impact of undesired situation of economic down into positive results such as this.

The answer : “Its good that the economy goes down, at least we can learn how to improve our financial management and find ways to get more money”

This is the pattern of thinking for successful people who knows how to take advantages of the undesired situation. These excellent people use context reframing to change from undesired situation like this by generating more creative ideas that average people never think off.